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I have had social anxiety for at least 20 years. Counselors and books keep telling me I have to overcome negative thoughts but I find that I rarely ever have conscious negative thoughts when the anxiety hits. To me it seems to happen automatically - no thoughts involved. Like instinct. Maybe over time it DOES become a type of instinctive behavior/habit.