I think im gay, althought its not true?
everybody seems to be giving me this idea, eventhough im not, but im srtarting to think I am gay because of what people say..
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It sounds like you are trying to find yourself. You have anxiety of some sort, or you wouldn't have joined this site. If you are "gay", it is not the end of the world. You are created by God and special to him, and you will not burn in hell or anything. I'm a big fan of Christ, and he loved everyone, lepers, prostitutes, etc. If you are in a situation where your family is persecuting you, you need to know that there are so many people out here that love you for you. If you are gay, whatever.....live on and be you.....You deserve to be who you are, and you are feeling alone and helpless.....that is not right. You are loved very much by the one who created you and by everyone on this site who understands anxiety and their brains messing with them. Hang in there. Gay or not Gay, you are a special gift to this earth and life. Hugs, hugs, hugs......
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Accepted Answer
Don't let anyone else label you! Only you can figure out what your sexuality and sexual orientation is or is not. And no matter what you discover or decide it is, you are wonderful and deserve love and to be happy! Just don't let anyone pressure you into labeling everything. You're who you are
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Sexuality actually happens on a spectrum. At one end you have those who are totally heterosexual who couldn't even consider a same-sex relationship. On the opposite end you have those who are totally homosexual, who couldn't even consider an opposite-sex relationship. In the middle you have those who are bisexual and could equally go either way. And then there's everyone in between. Some who are slightly attracted to the same sex but predominantly prefer the opposite sex, and vise-versa.
It's okay to be whoever you are. It's okay to not be sure and to be in the process of figuring it out. No one else has the right to tell you who you are. Find your own happiness and go with it.
