is their any group in existance to go to personaly not internet wise that will help people to meet have fun and cope with anxiety??

Depends on where you live, but they definitely do exist! Ask your doctor/therapist about it! Or check out your local mental health society locations (can even just look in the yellow pages, or google, of course). A lot of them offer support groups that are less for therapy, more for meeting people in similar situations and whatnot.